I totally understand what you’re going through — raising two kids at different ages can feel like juggling a dozen things at once. One thing that helps is to dedicate small, focused blocks of time to each child, even if it’s just 15–30 minutes where they have your full attention. That way, both feel seen and valued, and you avoid constantly comparing them. Also, try to involve them in shared activities where teamwork matters, so they can bond rather than compete. It kind of reminds me of managing a game like brainrot clicker. You have multiple units generating points simultaneously, and you need to balance upgrades and attention between them so nothing gets neglected. In parenting, each child is like one of those units — giving a bit of focused attention regularly can make a big difference in keeping everything running smoothly.